It’s the Valentine’s Day issue of KK’s Candor. For the younger version of me, Valentine’s Day was heart-warming feelings of hopeful romance. Most of the time the day ended with a twinge of disappointment. I survived, and I had my Valentine’s Day where there was no disappointment.

Our friends in the greeting card, #candy, and #jewelry industries have put pressure on the men in our lives to buy big. Let me help you out fellas. Before the stuffed animals, greeting cards, or jewelry your relationship may not be ready for, give us your heart. Be genuine.

I love picturing my husband in the card aisle choosing a card for me. In those moments he’s seeking a message from his heart to mine. But the words I focus on are the ones he writes above his name at the bottom of the card. Those are the words that I know come straight from his heart.

Yes, there’s usually a small sweet treat with the card. Nothing over the top. Just him taking a few minutes to buy a card, and my favorite candy. Don’t get me wrong, jewelry is welcome anytime, as long as it’s the right time.

Share a little love with someone this year. Maybe buy a box of those #valentines we had in grade school and fill them out for your friends at work, school, or church.

From my heart to yours,

KK

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